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Chapter 1
Control
The Problem
When a person needs to control (events, people, things), it is
very demeaning and frustrating to others around them. But
controllers are not doing it on purpose. The need to control
is based upon an underlying anxiety. There is "something"
deep inside the person that impels them to make sure things
don't get out of their control.
That "something" can be quite diverse in nature. What is
important to recognize is that as long as that "something"
remains inside them, they are compelled to control. It is not a
conscious decision or plan of theirs. It comes from inside
them.
The only way they can be set free is to find out what that
"something" is, and have it removed by the Lord.
Of course, the controller has to want the healing. No other
person can fix it for them. Others around them can, and
should, resist the control. That resistance will not enable the
controller to change their ways, because they don't have
conscious control over the issue. But the resistance, and the
anxiety that will produce in the controller, may motivate them
to seek healing.
The good news is that the 'something" inside, that seems
irresistible, can be removed by the blood of Jesus.
They just need detailed instructions as to how to
appropriate them into your life, so you can be set free.
My book, "I Will Give You Rest" addresses the whole array of
human struggles that Jesus can heal. The chapter order is
for the majority of needs.
However, your issue needs specific attention, and so I would
recommend that you read the book in a different order.
Recommended Sequence
I would recommend that you start with Chapters 2 and 3,
which will show you what is the nature of the "something"
inside that can be so powerful.
Then I would recommend that you go to Chapter 9, which will
help you understand that there are things inside you that are
important.
Then go to Chapter 11, which will identify a powerful tool that
you possess that is indispensable in your healing journey.
Finally, go back to Chapter 4 and read the rest of the chapters
in order.
Your Journey
I would recommend that you write down somewhere this
revised sequence of chapters so that you will not forget it -
remember, Chapters 2, 3, 9, 11, 4. Of course, you can
always come back here if you forget.
Be aware that when you read the chapters out of order, you
will bump into some terms with which you are not familiar,
because they were taught in earlier chapters which you have
not yet read.
However, this should not interfere with the main messages in
the chapters you are reading out of order.
You are free to spend as much time as you like on
this website, and you can jump in and out as your
schedule gives you time to read. When you come
back, you can just take up where you left off by
clicking on the appropriate chapter in the links on the
left of the web pages.
Links to:
Chapter 2
Chapter 3
Chapter 9
Chapter 11
Chapter 4
The Book In Print
The book is also available in print. You can buy a copy at any
time by clicking here, (or on the "Buy A Book" link on the
left of each web page.
Copyright 2008 Edward Kurath
Control
The Problem
When a person needs to control (events, people, things), it is
very demeaning and frustrating to others around them. But
controllers are not doing it on purpose. The need to control
is based upon an underlying anxiety. There is "something"
deep inside the person that impels them to make sure things
don't get out of their control.
That "something" can be quite diverse in nature. What is
important to recognize is that as long as that "something"
remains inside them, they are compelled to control. It is not a
conscious decision or plan of theirs. It comes from inside
them.
The only way they can be set free is to find out what that
"something" is, and have it removed by the Lord.
Of course, the controller has to want the healing. No other
person can fix it for them. Others around them can, and
should, resist the control. That resistance will not enable the
controller to change their ways, because they don't have
conscious control over the issue. But the resistance, and the
anxiety that will produce in the controller, may motivate them
to seek healing.
The good news is that the 'something" inside, that seems
irresistible, can be removed by the blood of Jesus.
They just need detailed instructions as to how to
appropriate them into your life, so you can be set free.
My book, "I Will Give You Rest" addresses the whole array of
human struggles that Jesus can heal. The chapter order is
for the majority of needs.
However, your issue needs specific attention, and so I would
recommend that you read the book in a different order.
Recommended Sequence
I would recommend that you start with Chapters 2 and 3,
which will show you what is the nature of the "something"
inside that can be so powerful.
Then I would recommend that you go to Chapter 9, which will
help you understand that there are things inside you that are
important.
Then go to Chapter 11, which will identify a powerful tool that
you possess that is indispensable in your healing journey.
Finally, go back to Chapter 4 and read the rest of the chapters
in order.
Your Journey
I would recommend that you write down somewhere this
revised sequence of chapters so that you will not forget it -
remember, Chapters 2, 3, 9, 11, 4. Of course, you can
always come back here if you forget.
Be aware that when you read the chapters out of order, you
will bump into some terms with which you are not familiar,
because they were taught in earlier chapters which you have
not yet read.
However, this should not interfere with the main messages in
the chapters you are reading out of order.
You are free to spend as much time as you like on
this website, and you can jump in and out as your
schedule gives you time to read. When you come
back, you can just take up where you left off by
clicking on the appropriate chapter in the links on the
left of the web pages.
Links to:
Chapter 2
Chapter 3
Chapter 9
Chapter 11
Chapter 4
The Book In Print
The book is also available in print. You can buy a copy at any
time by clicking here, (or on the "Buy A Book" link on the
left of each web page.
Copyright 2008 Edward Kurath
Divinely Designed
Being changed into the image of Jesus
Being changed into the image of Jesus
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